Monday, March 26, 2012

New Pot: Mr Lucky & Mr. Busch Update

Aye, the luck of the Irish!

Okay, enough with the schtick! Ladies, like I mentioned in my post titled "Mr. Mustache & Dubai" I met a potential pot while on a vacation with my current SD. I really didn't expect it to turn into much since he was from Ireland and I, at the time, was from a hunky-dory town in Texas. Funny how things work out because four months later I'm at a different location where I have the PERFECT chance to meet him.

In my current home town there is a week long sporting event that is literally SEETHING with affluent, rich men from around the globe. My pot, appropriately named "Mr. Lucky", has set up a 4-day long arrangement that will bring in $3,500...to little ole me. Yes!

I really wish he lived in the States, but he is married (I know, I know) with a Google-able partnership in a reputable pharmaceuticals distributor in Dublin. He was really straightforward and has a drool worthy accent! His physique?
...
Noooot so much!

He wants to do dinner every evening which frees up my days to pursue some IRL sugar with some of the out-of-towners. :)

All in all--a success...SO FAR!

An update on Mr. Busch: We have kept in contact here and there but he hasn't said anything that makes me believe he really wants to pursue an arrangement with me. :/ I think it's because of how young I am in comparison to him, also it doesn't help that I look like a damn 16 year old! UGH! I will keep you girls posted.

Until next time!

-Viv


Wednesday, March 7, 2012

New Pot: Mr. Busch



Hello Dolls!
I finally found a pot worth writing about! He says he is 55 but I'm almost sure he is fibbing! He is married and has been for 30+ years. The most striking attribute is that he is a major hitter for Anheuser Bush which allows him to travel to retailers and certain clients around the world. He's is Google-able which almost made me wet myself! Picture and all--it's him!

We met at a nice little eatery 10 minutes away from where I live. When I walked in he looked a little nervous but managed a smile. I can only imagine how people were looking at us--a cute twenty something brown girl sitting with an old white man! AH!
He is not a looker: white hair (all there, thank baby Jesus) with dazzling baby blue eyes. He looked like he had a bit of a hip flexor problem and went to the bathroom TWICE during our 35 minute lunch. (How long do you have to know someone to ask them to get their prostate checked?!) I know this may seem weird, but I am a VERY visual person and take everything in.

We chatted about my schooling and my future wants, I asked him about his wife and his family. He was very open to talking about it which was a relief--he was very candid as was I. We chatted very naturally and he said he had never had an SB but had a girlfriend for 6 years that he supported her financially.

When he got the check, we walked to my car and he asked me: "So how do you want to do this? Do I pay you everytime we meet? Or monthly?" I told him with a smile, "3-4 times a month for $2,000." I thought he would scurry away but he replied, "not bad at all." :) I'm really hoping this works out because, money wise, he is BEYOND legit.

I don't want to reveal too much, I hope it's enough to appease you gals. :)

Until next time,

-Viv

Sugar Baby Must Have (SBMH): GoogleVoice

Hello Dolls!
I have decided that along with taudry tales of my sugar escapades I would start a piece called "Sugar Baby Must Haves" (SBMH). For the most part it will be full of ways to safeguard your IRL life versus your SB life and things of that variety. :)

First on my list of SBMH's is... Google Voice! I cannot say ENOUGH about this small sliver of what Google has to offer. All you need is a Google email (Gmail) account.



Why You Need It: It allows you to create a phone number with the area code OF YOUR CHOOSING to give out to previously screened SD's. (By previously screened I mean men (or women) that you have chatted with via email and have a good enough feeling about to dole out an immediate means of communication.)

I know, from experience (unfortunately!) that when you give your number to a pot, or even a pot boyfriend, that you run across the chance of having a "crazy" who feels like they have the right to call and text whenever the hell THEY feel like it! Um, no sirree Bob!

GoogleVoice gives you a measure of control on who can contact you and when! Along with having a phone number you can seamlessly block unsavory callers from, you can also send texts! The GoogleVoice service allows you to route your GV number to your smartphone! That is what sold me; in a day and age where we are almost never without our cellphones, being able to have your personal cell phone calls AND your private GV calls coming to the same device is fantastic! I've attached a video explaining the use of GV and how you can sign up today--oh, and did I mention...it's free!

Stay Sugary-Stay Safe.

Enjoy dolls!
-Viv


Friday, March 2, 2012

ABC News Requests College SB Interview

I kid you not! I had to do a bit of digging (and by digging I mean looking up archived ABC News articles from said unnamed news correspondent!) but it was true! A scout, who was tasked with revealing the secret world of Sugar Babies, wanted to have a telephone conference interview with me. I was completely lost as to how she came in contact with me! Here I was--in Dubai with Mr. Mustache, fielding requests on exposing my secret life.

The answer was revealed as I continued to read the email:
I’m a producer with ABC News in New York and am researching a story about sugar babies – specifically women who are putting themselves through college.  I really loved reading your blog and wanted to know if you’d consider an off-the-record phone chat when you’re free?  I can be reached at 212-456-xxxx or on my cell – 917-692-xxxx.  Alternately, you can email me a good time/number where you can be reached.  Thanks so much for considering this request.  Would love to hear more about your perspective and experiences.

Thanks.

(Name Removed)
ABC News
At first, I felt really--VISIBLE! Seriously, my stomach fell into my butt! I have taken every plausible measure to share this life of mine while managing to protect the day to day life my family and the rest of the world is privy to. Thankfully, I was half-way across the world where I couldn't even ENTERTAIN the thought of revealing this part of my life. I politely responded:

Name Removed,


Thank you for reading my blog! It chronicles my time spent as a college SB. Right now I'm on holiday in Dubai (with my honey!) so I wont be able to exchange contact with you as freely as I would like.


I will be back stateside next week and am more than interested in contributing to your "off the record" interview.


Thank you again for reaching out to me.


Ms. Vivian Jade


Sent from my iPhone
Fortunately, she was in a sort of time crunch and later replied:
Dubai!  What fun. 

Thanks for writing back.  We’re actually airing the story on Friday, so unfortunately it looks like the timing might not work.  But if you happen to know any other women who share your same outlook and put themselves through college with the help of a sugar daddy, please let me know!

Enjoy your travels!

And thanks again for the reply.

Best,
Name Removed
ABC News
Bullet dodged I guess! I talked to Mr. Mustache and he had a "mini-heart attack." (His words!) I reassured him that the interview wouldn't happen if either of the two of us were exposed.
Word of advice: IF you decide to go on national television and name yourself a sugar baby please for the love of all that is good and holy ARTICULATE! Cross your ankles, wear suitable attire, and brush your MOTHER FUCKING HAIR. The newscast that I would have been in is above and it DEF looks like they scraped the bottom of the daggone bucket for these chicks! Bleh. I almost wish I did the interview just to show that not all self-proclaimed SB's are trash.

Until next time dolls,
Viv