A New POT-Buuuuut...

Buuut.....he lives in the SAME CITY AS CHAZ. Eek. While most sugar babies wouldn't even attempt to pursue a suitor who lives in the same vicinity as a prime candidate, I think that I will take my chances and see where this can lead. Let's call the new pot Doctor H. According to his stats, he is married (I know, I know), a 6'3'' athletic blue eyed doctor who makes..*drum roll please* more than $1M a year. YAH I KNOW! He sent me this email via SeekingArrangement:

For this email (above) to be his first contact (stating clear and true his allowance), I think is a good sign. Hmm, I'm not sure, but I'll keep you dolls updated. IF (and only if) I manage to get Chaz to uphold to the $5K and Doctor H to live up to his $4K, then that will be near $10K in the bank...THINK THINGS INTO REALITY, GIRLS! *sighs* My head is swimming. Out for a jog, and then I'll be back with a follow up.

Viv

Is One SD Enough?

Hello sugar sweeties! While I have a REAALLY faboosh pot SD (Chaz) I need a contingent plan of sorts. You know, something to fall back on if Chaz starts to fizzle. I've started to put effort into looking for a second (and third!) pot that show promise, but believe me it's been a bit tough. I met Chaz on SugarDaddie .com, the only thing that blows about that site is that to send messages to men, you have to pay $20/monthly! Is that not freaking bananas??! I mean, hello! We are SB's shouldn't it be free? BUT I can say that the quality of men there is better than other sites. Bleh-I can't complain because, if I think about it in a financial standpoint, I have made hundreds in cash and gifts from a man I have yet to meet! Which kind of puts the "pressure" on for out first encounter which is a weekend stay in his hometown. BUT-nonetheless I give no nookie without the allowance cookie! I'm still gunning for the $5K/mo, but am willing to negosh for $3,5K/mo at the LEAST. If he's not for it (though I think he will be!) I will gracefully walk away.

The ONLY site I have found that is free for women is SeekingArrangement .com; the only thing that sucks is the fact that the quality of men are majority FAKE FAKE FAKE. Sometimes I don't even bother reading the plethora of Inbox Mail, Winks, and Favorites-it's ridiculous. I like having a pot SD who lives a ways away from me. Chaz lives in Houston which is like a 3 hour car drive from my hometown. And I know all you girls are wondering but yes, he is married. It is ideal for me because I'm not getting those, "what are you doing?" text, emails, and IM's at all hours of the day. ANOTHER reason it works for me is because during our visits, we will spend time during the day: shopping, dining out, and the like-and my evenings are to myself! I have a few friends in Houston that I will have to make sure I hit up.

ATTENTION ATTENTION! Are there any Houston based sugar babies who want to meet up the weekend of Feb. 18-21? I would be sooo indebted to you gals! We could grab drinks, my treat!

Chaz keeps saying that we will go shopping, I wonder..if he'll hand me a card, hand me some cash, or do as we always do and use my trusty friend PayPal! Speaking of PayPal, if you have a pot SD who is wary about leaving a paper trail, have him setup a PayPal account; he can direct deposit cash (and LOTS of it) into your PayPal account. It's up to you as to whether or not you want to securely link a personal checking account to your PayPal account so you can transfer funds straight to your account! I did this when Chaz sent the just because cash and the tire replacement cash. Question: how do you girls receive your moo-lah from your pot SD's? Oh, and thanks for the FaceBook fam who read the blog! It means THE WORLD: KNOW THIS! We girls need to support one another because in this sugary world, it's easy to get swept up into the benefits (cash, shopping, cars, clothes) but we are still WOMEN who FEEL, even if we have a jaded approach to getting what we want. We still FEEL. *Okay I'll stop preaching!* :) Have a sugary day!

Viv

Signed, Sealed, Delivered!

Currently in the process (literally-we are IM'ing the deets right now!) of getting my cash for a new set of tires. It's a little funny: after my test (which I'm almost sure I got a A+ on) I stopped by a local garage to get a quote for the tires, installation, rotation, and all that jazz-and for four tires it costs $530. YIKES! I was about to leave and IM my SD on my Yahoo! iPhone app when the mechanic looked at my tires and said that the rear two tires could use another 8,000 miles. Sooo...thinking of how I could benefit, I asked for a quote to fix the two front tires and it's roughly only $175! I called Chaz and let him know that it costs $530...therefore pocketing an extra $350 of spending money. I smell a phone payment being paid for two months and a mini-spa day for this SB's weekend! We still haven't discussed the topic of gas money, spending money, etc. for the trip. But we have two weeks to prepare so I'm not much concerned. I don't want him to feel as if I'm milking him-even though in reality...I am. Considering his personality, I'm almost sure that I'll gain genuine caring feelings for him, but for now? He's just another pot SD trying to plead his case. And I, a sweet SB, here to lend a listening ear. :) I'll be sure to update when things are finalized. Happy Sugar Search!

**UPDATE**

My bank account has $600 extra in it as of NOW! Whoo hoo! Until next time. Viv

Why Subliminal Hints Work-Without Making You Seem Like A Begger

Ok, last post then I'm in bed sleeping soundly--PROMISE!

Earlier in the week when I was talking to my pot SD (he needs a damned nick-name...hmmmm how about Chaz.) I was talking to Chaz and we thought about me driving to see him. Before I answered, I thought like a SMART SB; *well, I need a new set of tires for my car, and have absolutely NO extra cash to throw down to have them replaced*. So instead of saying, I'll drive or lets setup a flight-I said, "I would LOVE, to drive...but the tires on my car are in pretty bad shape. I would hate to pop a tire on the way to see you." If he's a quality MAN much less SD, he would be thinking of how he can help to alleviate your problem! Well, I just read an email Chaz sent me saying that he would direct deposit the cash needed for gas and a brand new set of tires for my Chevy! Ah, womanly wiles how I love them so! Goodnight!

Phone Sex With SD

Yeeeeeeeeeeaaaah...about that. It was mostly him moaning, me agreeing, ooh-ing and ahh-ing on interval annnd then it was over! LOL It was so weird!! I had never done it before tonight, but after it was over, he was really happy that I "participated". I told him I never had phone sex- he said that that was OK. It's all a part of the sugaring world I suppose! Any advice vets?! Ta-ta got to rest up, I have a test in the morning!

It Has Been FAARR To Long!

Firstly, I would like to apologize!

I COMPLETELY abandoned my "sugar diary" of sorts! That was probably because the "SD" that I met turned out to be a creepy creepin creepster...you know what I mean! But since then, I've upped my standards. My allowance of $2,000 +gifts has changed to a whopping $5K +gifts (which is probably what made my pickin pool smaller LOL) I'm enrolled part-time at a community college until I transfer to a big name University later on this year.

When I gave up on the sugar-world, I had only had a taste! A man with an ungodly amount of money, his mansion in Irving, his fly ride, and the money that was thrown my way. (I mean it was one date!) I've been in contact with a gentleman I met on SugarDaddie...and...he...is...the...business. After talking on the phone and email exchanges, I had a $300 Amazon Gift Card sent to me along with random gifts from my Amazon WishList throughout this entire month! (Totaling of about $2K: a SonicCare Micro Dermabrasion Kit, Mac Makeup, Chanel scarves & perfume, Fredericks Hollywood lingerie, a shit ton of Betsey Johnson clothes/accessories, and random other goodies!)

I FINALLY get to meet up with him and I am excited rather than frantic and scared as THE FUCK like I was on my first (and only LOL) sugar date. I think the reason things didn't work out with my first potential was because I was super nervous, and I could tell he just wanted sex. When he found out that wasn't happening he kinda bailed mentally LOL.

FOR ALL EXPERIENCED SB's: What is your "rule" on sleeping with a SD on the first encounter? It's just a question: I'm really considering coyly asking for half of our previously discussed allowance ($5K-so $2.5K up front!) a fair amount of time before I mentally commit to having sex with a man I may or may not be physically attracted to.

He's not hideous, but he's no George Clooney! (a girl can always dream!) I've found that reading some of the posts from you beautiful (newbies && experienced!) SB's that I find a sense of community in women who want more out of life-and are willing to do what they need to do to get it!

*sigh* Any advice? It HAS been a while since I whole-heartedly invested time and energy into my Sugar Daddy.