New Pot: Mr. Busch

Hello Dolls!

I finally found a pot worth writing about! He says he is 55 but I'm almost sure he is fibbing! He is married and has been for 30+ years. The most striking attribute is that he is a major hitter for Anheuser Bush which allows him to travel to retailers and certain clients around the world. He's is Google-able which almost made me wet myself! Picture and all--it's him!

We met at a nice little eatery 10 minutes away from where I live. When I walked in he looked a little nervous but managed a smile. I can only imagine how people were looking at us--a cute twenty something brown girl sitting with an old white man! AH!

He is not a looker: white hair (all there, thank baby Jesus) with dazzling baby blue eyes. He looked like he had a bit of a hip flexor problem and went to the bathroom TWICE during our 35 minute lunch. (How long do you have to know someone to ask them to get their prostate checked?!) I know this may seem weird, but I am a VERY visual person and take everything in.

We chatted about my schooling and my future wants, I asked him about his wife and his family. He was very open to talking about it which was a relief--he was very candid as was I. We chatted very naturally and he said he had never had an SB but had a girlfriend for 6 years that he supported her financially.

When he got the check, we walked to my car and he asked me: "So how do you want to do this? Do I pay you everytime we meet? Or monthly?" I told him with a smile, "3-4 times a month for $2,000." I thought he would scurry away but he replied, "not bad at all." :) I'm really hoping this works out because, money wise, he is BEYOND legit.

I don't want to reveal too much, I hope it's enough to appease you gals. :)

Until next time,

-Viv

ABC News Requests College SB Interview

I kid you not! I had to do a bit of digging (and by digging I mean looking up archived ABC News articles from said unnamed news correspondent!) but it was true! A scout, who was tasked with revealing the secret world of Sugar Babies, wanted to have a telephone conference interview with me. I was completely lost as to how she came in contact with me! Here I was--in Dubai with Mr. Mustache, fielding requests on exposing my secret life.

The answer was revealed as I continued to read the email:

I’m a producer with ABC News in New York and am researching a story about sugar babies – specifically women who are putting themselves through college.  I really loved reading your blog and wanted to know if you’d consider an off-the-record phone chat when you’re free?  I can be reached at 212-456-xxxx or on my cell – 917-692-xxxx.  Alternately, you can email me a good time/number where you can be reached.  Thanks so much for considering this request.  Would love to hear more about your perspective and experiences.

Thanks.

(Name Removed)
ABC News

At first, I felt really--VISIBLE! Seriously, my stomach fell into my butt! I have taken every plausible measure to share this life of mine while managing to protect the day to day life my family and the rest of the world is privy to. Thankfully, I was half-way across the world where I couldn't even ENTERTAIN the thought of revealing this part of my life. I politely responded:

Name Removed,


Thank you for reading my blog! It chronicles my time spent as a college SB. Right now I'm on holiday in Dubai (with my honey!) so I wont be able to exchange contact with you as freely as I would like.


I will be back stateside next week and am more than interested in contributing to your "off the record" interview.


Thank you again for reaching out to me.


Ms. Vivian Jade


Sent from my iPhone

Fortunately, she was in a sort of time crunch and later replied:

Dubai!  What fun. 

Thanks for writing back.  We’re actually airing the story on Friday, so unfortunately it looks like the timing might not work.  But if you happen to know any other women who share your same outlook and put themselves through college with the help of a sugar daddy, please let me know!

Enjoy your travels!

And thanks again for the reply.

Best,
Name Removed
ABC News

Bullet dodged I guess! I talked to Mr. Mustache and he had a "mini-heart attack." (His words!) I reassured him that the interview wouldn't happen if either of the two of us were exposed.

Word of advice: IF you decide to go on national television and name yourself a sugar baby please for the love of all that is good and holy ARTICULATE! Cross your ankles, wear suitable attire, and brush your MOTHER FUCKING HAIR. The newscast that I would have been in is above and it DEF looks like they scraped the bottom of the daggone bucket for these chicks! Bleh. I almost wish I did the interview just to show that not all self-proclaimed SB's are trash.

Until next time dolls,
Viv

The Timewaster and The Genuine Pot

Hello my beautiful dolls. I feel it necessary to touch on the men who occupy our lives. (biological fathers aside, LOL) The ones who waste our time and the ones who are our potential/SD's!

Timewasters

I promise as confident as I may come off (which is a separate post in itself-more to come!) I am still fairly new to the SugarBowl. I'm finding that my radar to gage "timewasters" isn't as sharp as I would like it to be. Recently I met a man on SA.com who was a single father in Chicago working with foreign currency. We exchanged emails via the site and he seemed so very open to my wants and even offered to fly me out to Chicago to visit. We finally exchanged personal emails, which led to exchanging phone numbers. We spoke on the phone he seemed so...normal!

He was attentive with his kids (which I heard in the background EVERY fucking time) and he even had a little puppy in the back yipping on occasion! The Wednesday before the weekend we pegged for my CHI visit, he stops responding to texts, emails, or phone calls. I KNOW RIGHT?!

Fucking ass.

It wasn't incessant the communication between us-I must stress that! But he up and disappeared! I even sought advice via the SB's on FB: I was given a very great piece of advice. I found a link to a flight that had the shortest layover and most direct route and emailed it to him. To quote the SB I chatted with: "If he doesn't respond in the AM with flight details write him off as a timewaster and go about your business."

Lo and be fucking hold, boo boo did NOT respond--which honestly upset me because nothing is more irritating than someone who openly and BLATANTLY wastes MY time. But as she said, I "went about my business" of searching for another pot. That SAME evening, I sent a "Wink" to a gentleman who lives not far from me (about an hour ten, tops) and he was more than interested. We will call this man Mr. Mustache. (For those of you on the FB SB train, I posted a picture of him with his ginormous stache, it's been removed now considering his potential. :))

The Genuine Pot

Mr. Mustache is an active part of the Texas legislature working as a lobbyist and making a cool 500 thou. He's a little pudgy (fuck it, I'm being nice--poor thing is just fat) bald on top and semi-short. The trip was soo much fun! We went to the state Capitol building, dinner, then drinks at his place. Long story short, I stayed at a nearby suite, and walked away with a nice $2,500 in hand. He was very sweet and had more to talk about than only sex! LOL

No sex was had, but we did have a few make-out sessions--damn his mustache!

Considering my degree, he proposed in the future (interests permitting) I would work at his office while still receiving the agreed upon allowance. ($2,000/per meet max three times per month.) We also talked about my relocating to him. (which was a step that I would have eventually taken considering the location of the Uni I want to attend.) He's really big on holding hands in public and what have you, so I had to adjust myself to the gawks and whispers! But THINK ABOUT IT: a short period of time of being uncomfortable for $2,500?? STARE ALL YA WANT! After this chat, he became very adamant on me deleting my account on SA. I asked if he would delete his, and he said "I already have."

...

Okay--don't let me catch your ass on that shit; I'll bust that bubble WIDE open. Haha!

Do any of you girls have a semi-embarrassing story of an outing with your pot? Do tell!

-Viv

Signed, Sealed, Delivered!

Currently in the process (literally-we are IM'ing the deets right now!) of getting my cash for a new set of tires. It's a little funny: after my test (which I'm almost sure I got a A+ on) I stopped by a local garage to get a quote for the tires, installation, rotation, and all that jazz-and for four tires it costs $530. YIKES! I was about to leave and IM my SD on my Yahoo! iPhone app when the mechanic looked at my tires and said that the rear two tires could use another 8,000 miles. Sooo...thinking of how I could benefit, I asked for a quote to fix the two front tires and it's roughly only $175! I called Chaz and let him know that it costs $530...therefore pocketing an extra $350 of spending money. I smell a phone payment being paid for two months and a mini-spa day for this SB's weekend! We still haven't discussed the topic of gas money, spending money, etc. for the trip. But we have two weeks to prepare so I'm not much concerned. I don't want him to feel as if I'm milking him-even though in reality...I am. Considering his personality, I'm almost sure that I'll gain genuine caring feelings for him, but for now? He's just another pot SD trying to plead his case. And I, a sweet SB, here to lend a listening ear. :) I'll be sure to update when things are finalized. Happy Sugar Search!

**UPDATE**

My bank account has $600 extra in it as of NOW! Whoo hoo! Until next time. Viv

Why Subliminal Hints Work-Without Making You Seem Like A Begger

Ok, last post then I'm in bed sleeping soundly--PROMISE!

Earlier in the week when I was talking to my pot SD (he needs a damned nick-name...hmmmm how about Chaz.) I was talking to Chaz and we thought about me driving to see him. Before I answered, I thought like a SMART SB; *well, I need a new set of tires for my car, and have absolutely NO extra cash to throw down to have them replaced*. So instead of saying, I'll drive or lets setup a flight-I said, "I would LOVE, to drive...but the tires on my car are in pretty bad shape. I would hate to pop a tire on the way to see you." If he's a quality MAN much less SD, he would be thinking of how he can help to alleviate your problem! Well, I just read an email Chaz sent me saying that he would direct deposit the cash needed for gas and a brand new set of tires for my Chevy! Ah, womanly wiles how I love them so! Goodnight!

Phone Sex With SD

Yeeeeeeeeeeaaaah...about that. It was mostly him moaning, me agreeing, ooh-ing and ahh-ing on interval annnd then it was over! LOL It was so weird!! I had never done it before tonight, but after it was over, he was really happy that I "participated". I told him I never had phone sex- he said that that was OK. It's all a part of the sugaring world I suppose! Any advice vets?! Ta-ta got to rest up, I have a test in the morning!

Spas, Steaks, && Cash

Attention Attention, is this thing on?

I have successfully made it to my SD's hometown and it's like living in a movie! Here I am, it's 9:30PM @ night && I'm laying on a Queen size plush bed in awe at the days events! Here's a run down:

He picks me up from the airport (in a white BMW no less:D)

We go to lunch in a cute little bistro, the sun was out so we enjoyed our meal outside. We talked about what I need, and what he needs && laid down a few ground rules.

I go to his home, holy moly his home is like out of a movie!

After a little tour of the surrounding neighborhood, we go to the Four Seasons for drinks.

By then it was five and he wanted to treat me to a spa day. OMG I have sooo many pictures:p

After the spa, which was AMAZING! We went to our dinner reservations at a very posh steakhouse. Best steak of my life I might add!

When we got to the car he said, "I have something for you," and put 300 dollars on the table. I'm not gonna lie it was kind of weird:/

After that he took me to my room @ the Four Seasons (part of our arrangement-no sex on the first encounter, only until it feels right) and here I am!

Question: When we were out together, we would get some offhand stares, any advice on how to deal girls? It really bothered me though I didn't let it put a damper on our evening:))

I'll be sure to update when I touch down, until then.

Viv!

A New POT!! && Girls He Seems Like A Sure Thing

WOW! So where to begin. After a 3 hr search (yes, three) I have found a very very good pot SD. Let's call him Mr. Mac.

First off annual income oooooof: 500k-1MIL (<--uh yeah!)

He loves women of color and has dated women of color and loves them (WTF with the white guys!) We exchanged Y!IM addresses and started chatting away. He's actually really down to Earth. He's not one of those "Ok lets see a naked picture" kind of guys; and I felt comfortable enough to tell him I don't do that...AT ALL. He said he respects that. So after an hour of talking he IM'd me his phone number. I was so scared to call him! My heart started like racing! It was so surreal. I picked up my cell and saved him under "Mr. Mac" and put "POT" in all caps :p

Then I called, it was so cute. He had a really heavy Texas drawl. He mostly wanted to talk about if I was physically attracted to him and I told him I was(really I am girls I promise!), he said he likes me and wants to fly me to Dallas to visit him. I told him that would be okay in due time:)

Girls, I'm excited, but I'm not going to put all my sugar cubes in one Chanel clutch! I'm still, modestly, searching! Any career Sugars have any advice on how to broach the topic of allowance with him? Please feedback is needed!

Viv

I ORIGINALLY MEANT TO END HERE, BUT MR. MAC TXTD ME ASKING TO SEE ME THIS WKND

Holy be-jebus advice ladies come on now. Rally up the troops and help a girl with this decision!